Feminism and family

Many people believe Feminism creates complication in families. How  two equal people can create imbalance in family. If a wife earns more than her husband it is good for the family. The family flourishes all over. If wife is more educated and talented than husband what is wrong? Patriarchy and misogyny have spoiled my family. My mother's educational dreams were shattered to create a good family. My mother used to say me that my father was misguided by his sister and mother that educated women would never be submissive. They will speak against husband and will not respect them. It took  my mother 5 years to convince him and she did her graduation using correspondence education.My father suffered from ulcer and had his surgery. He was advised to take rest for a year. He could not take ample rest as he was the sole bread winner of the family. He was worried of what would happen to family if he dies. He sent my mother to typewriting,computer courses. He died of sun stroke. My mother could not get job easily as she had only correspondence education and nil experience. People who gave my father bum steer did not help us in difficult situation. My mother went to two jobs to make ends meet. If my mother might have had college education and had a job our life might have been easy. Me and my sister have studied in boarding school for 10 years and my mother used to say that we might have got best education if my father was alive. Patriarchy and misogyny have made our life difficult. I would even say that male chavinism killed my father. Feminism can only create Happy families.