Feminist shaming

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Many people shame feminist without even knowing what feminism is.  Male chauvinists blame women for each and every bad things happening around them. Thanks to Indian cinema, that made people believe that feminists are people who are against men and have short hair,wear short skirts, does not know to cook and are against mother milk. What a projection of feminists? Feminists are not against men they are against patriarchy ,which is against humanity. Feminism is blamed for rapes,unemployment,violence, divorce and dowry cases.The word feminism is misunderstood and there is an aversion towards feminists. If a man mentions himself as a feminist, then he is a good and kind person. He is lectured on bad effects of feminism and advised not to be so soft and feel pity on women. If a women is a feminist she is arrogant ,and they are the one who spoil our society. My friend was advised to unfollow all her feminist Facebook groups as it would put her in bad light. Her mother said she will be rebuked by all her relatives.Feminism gave Education, employment, property rights,safety,right to vote etc. Can any one say that all these rights are wrong? People would argue that women got all the rights and they should be Happy about it. Yes, we got many rights ;but the journey should continue for us to get many more rights,that we still didn't get. People might have said that women can read and that's enough or women can vote that itself a privilege. Femenists were the one who fought further and got right to college education and right to contest in election.  We have many miles to go. Let's start.

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