Miss and Mrs

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Why should a women should have a title as Miss or Mrs? Men are addressed as Mr. Why my marital status is given so much importance? The option Ms is not available in most forms. If a women mentions Ms in any of her form then she is assumed to be old and unmarried or divorcee. This creates a lot of embrassment for women in public. In bank forms,hospital forms,government Identity cards and ration cards everything requires you to tick a salutation. Women does not belong to anyone then why should a women's Identity should be always based on her marital status.  People relate women's working status with form title. A home maker or a working women both are going to pay for the services they use. If title on hospital forms are used in diagnosing and treating patients then what would be the future of health care? A married women may be not sexually active or an unmarried women can have sex. This title box can not be considered in diagnosing patients. A neutral title irrespective of marital status of women should be introduced.

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